Confessing your feelings for a guy is very important, but it can be so hard. It’s not always easy to gather the courage all by yourself! If you need help, here are some tips on how to confess love to a guy.
My boyfriend was about to leave because of family problems with his mom & dad fighting all the time. I told him I loved him & he turned back around & gave me a hug and said “don’t ever tell me goodbye again, because that’s the last thing I want to hear you say.”
1) Make sure you’re ready to face rejection!
Don’t rely on anyone else telling your crush unless they are 100% sure they will say yes. There’s no point in your crush turning you down and then feeling embarrassed about it later on, because he knew all along that you had a crush on him.
2) Think about whether this is the right time!
Don’t randomly confess your love for someone out of the blue if there is something that could be a big distraction to the both of you. Maybe your parents want you to move and go live with them in another country? Better not say so on the next day, because it could ruin everything!
3) Always keep time and place in mind!
When is a good moment for him? Is he stressed, tired, distracted, or in a good mood? When is a good moment for you? For example, if he just broke up with his girlfriend and that’s the reason why your crush isn’t paying much attention to you anymore, it’s not really a great time to confess your love.
4) Make sure no one else is around!
You don’t want to let your best friend tell your crush how you feel, especially if she isn’t that good with secrets (ahem).
5) Think about what to say!
How will you introduce the topic? It’s usually better not to blurt it out straight away. Instead of saying something like “I love you”, try starting with a question. “Would you be interested in hanging out sometime?” Or, just come right out and say it! “I have something I want to tell you.” If he keeps asking what it is that you need to say, try saying “Just wait till tomorrow”. This way it can give him a hint of what’s coming so he won’t drive himself crazy wondering what you want to tell him.
6) Lastly, don’t be afraid to take risks!
If you do get rejected, remember that it isn’t the end of the world. You can always try another guy or wait for someone else! And while you’re still around, your crush might change his mind and confess back to you.
7) You can always try and not tell him, but make sure it won’t eat you up inside!
If you like someone and don’t want to say anything because you’re afraid of getting hurt, maybe it’s better to stop liking them. Stop watching their videos on YouTube, stop reading their tweets or statuses (if they have one), stop stalking what they’re doing on Facebook or other social network sites. If you can’t stop thinking about them, then you haven’t moved on. If the attraction is still there after a period of time, maybe it’s better to just go for it!
8) Don’t be afraid!
If you’ve tried all these tips and are not ready to take risks, maybe it’s better not to confess. If you like someone and never tell them how you feel, you’ll always be left wondering what might have happened if you did say something.
9) Don’t forget to follow your heart!
If you want to tell someone how you feel, then go for it. If they reject you, take the risk and try someone else or wait for another day. In the end, always remember that if it’s meant to be, nothing will keep the both of you from being together.
10) And if all this seems too hard, just keep reading my blog!
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See you around! 🙂
Good luck! And don’t give up